Many people underestimate the importance of words exchanged between partners during sexual pleasures. But often inadvertently thrown a woman phrase can excite a man much more than naked charms.
- Are the intonations and words affect the human nervous system?
- What are the phrases that can be arousing for men and for women?
- What to say when having sexual intercourse with a partner?
- Is it normal for a partner to talk during sex?
How can I get aroused with words?
A hint of sexual intercourse can be achieved not only by a single word, but quite ordinary phrases, but said with the right intonation. The proposal, made in a whisper or with a slight hint, can excite much more than the most lewd striptease.
It happens that girls spend too much effort to bring your loved one to a state of readiness for carnal pleasure, but they missed one important detail: just say the right phrases so that the process went much faster.
The secret of how to excite a man for sex, is that all the words should be without a patina of falsehood or overplaying. Suggestions should sound natural, without pretentiousness. The nature of statements can be anything: bright and passionate, lewd, naive and shy, with foul language.
Say all the phrases can be a gentle whisper, and defiantly loud. The choice depends only on the preferences of the partner at whom all the words are directed. As mentioned above, everything should look natural, not contrived.
Suggestions can be very different, and their choice depends on the individual preferences of the man: what turns him on sexually.
The choice of the moment when the phrases will be uttered is also important. If you start hitting on ambiguous phrases at the wrong moment, it can only cause irritation and laughter in the opposite sex.
But what do you need to know to know when this moment has arrived? This can only be felt by understanding that at this moment the partner feels free and liberated. He should not be overwhelmed by everyday life and other problems. It is then that any phrases will sound the most natural and perceived properly.
Catch this moment, of course, is not always possible. But you have to try to get away from the daily worries and fully surrender to feelings and emotions, then all the phrases spoken will have the most exciting effect, and the natural voice does not need to change.
Men have a peculiarity – to hear a sexual connotation where there can be none. Even in the most ordinary phrase – “let’s go, let’s do business” – a man can detect ambiguous connotations: his eyes moisten passionately, communication becomes aloof. This will mean that he is already overtaken by a wave of excitement.
What exactly turns men on in conversations?
What will affect a man in ordinary conversation may depend solely on the personality of the partner. Some vulgar phrases can embarrass and make you blush, and some will be inclined to talk frankly. Some need to whisper crude and lewd words, while others will be aroused by a simple and innocent sentence.
Some young ladies believe that all men are the same: it is enough to hear a thin phrase spoken in a low voice, such as: “Oh, dear, I’m not wearing underwear today” – and the man immediately have a solid erection and a desire to take the lady to bed. However, this does not work with everyone. Therefore, first of all, you need to learn as best as possible a man, learn all the subtleties of his character and preferences.
However, all arousing options can be divided into several groups of conversations. So, what can you talk about to excite a man?
- Praise his virtues, character traits and other compliments. Many men are very turned on by how their girlfriend begins to praise and admire his musculature or the same sex organ. Of course, everything is individual, but still a man likes to hear compliments in his address. Only you need to remember: not to cause a sense of mistrust and mistrust, all compliments should be sincere.
- Recall past moments of intimacy and describe them to a man. For example, say, “Remember last week you kept me so amazingly late for work!”
- With your phrases, you can get a man to show his imagination. For example, say, “Imagine we’re alone on the beach, the waves are making noise, I’m slowly taking off my bathing suit and no one can stop us!” You can say what experiments you would like to do in bed. For example, talk about your desire to play teacher and schoolgirl. Again, it is necessary to keep in mind the mood of the man, so that he would take everything adequately.
But it is not only calm dialogue that can be successful. Some men lose their heads when a woman is hysterical, rebellious, rude, and in every way fiery in character. Such gigs make him want to pick her up and calm her down. Irritated and angry women are very arousing to men.
Each person needs an individual approach, but not everyone likes whispering vulgarities. But the innocent tenderness will be a tremendous success!
What kind of words can excite?
According to sexologists’ studies, there are certain phrases that cause a special burst of excitement in the male brain of the pleasure hormone. And if you apply such words, you can achieve your goal of arousal faster.
List of words:
- bed;
- bed;
- enjoy;
- pleasure;
- body;
- want;
- passionately;
- arouse;
- caress.
These are the basic words. The list can be supplemented with your own special words that have significance exclusively for a particular situation. But even such a list is enough to make a stimulating phrase, for example, “Do you take care of your body the way I do? Do you take care of it, caress it?”
Conversation during sex
Another category of phrases, sentences, and words refers to those who talk during sex. After all, it is not necessary to be silent while the process of sexual intercourse takes place, it is enough to moan softly. To fully satisfy all the senses it is necessary to use the auditory organs. Making sounds during sex and showing all kinds of emotions, of course, is very good, but some talk during sex can have a good effect not only on the man, but also on the woman.
What will be appropriate to talk about in bed? What is the best thing to say to a woman and what is best to say to a man?
How do words add passion to the sexual encounter? So, in order to have passionate sex and bring both partners pleasure, you need to take care not to say too much, and insert the right phrases.
During intercourse, it is best to talk in short sentences, and only on the subject of sex and caressing.
Phrases uttered in bed by a woman
A girl in bed can think about anything, but the biggest mistake will be the questions that are not related to sexual intercourse. For example, it is absolutely not worth asking a man when he will buy new shoes or a coat. Also, you should not make up excessively pompous and long sentences, which need a long and intelligible answer. This can be left for the process of excitement of the partner. It is also a mistake that a girl tells during sex about extraneous things, about her girlfriends or her plans. So all that can be said is short phrases and sentences.
Many women make some mistake in composing nicknames for their men, calling them diminutives, like “bunny, kitty, baby”.
In normal life this may work well: it makes men mollycoddle and relax. But in bed, a man feels like a warrior, a hunter, a winner and, above all, strong, and not a “baby”. Therefore, it is better to address your partner with the words – “my lion”!
On the female side will be correct to say the guiding phrases to regulate the sexual contact, for example, to inform about the approach of orgasm. So it will be appropriate to look a phrase: “A little slower, so, good!” or “Kiss my breast, you like it!”, “Come into me deeper, sharper!”, “I like to suck your cock so much, come on, I’ll do it!”.
A woman stimulates a man with these kinds of action-oriented phrases.
It is not bad and a man is not shy to say what he likes, whether it is dirty arousing vulgarities or just suggestive phrases for action.
Phrases spoken in bed by a man
The female brain is a strange thing. Women are known to perceive words much more subtly than men. They can excite even the most unobtrusive phrases, so men need to try to find a key to the partner to guess from what she will receive the greatest pleasure. Therefore, if a man talks during sex, he should do it so that the woman “fell in love with his ears.
First of all, any woman likes to be admired. In bed it is especially important. Compliments about what beautiful breasts she has, sexy hips, silky hair, how good she is in bed – that is what will bring real pleasure.
And by no means should you mention minor flaws like a pimple or an extra crease. All of this can be left for another time, but not during sex.
It is important to treat a woman with respect and affection, then you can get the most amazing pleasure. For example: “What a sweet and hot pussy you have, I want to come inside you as soon as possible!” or “Your breasts are divine, let me kiss them!”
Some girls may be turned on by harsh and vulgar attitudes and conversations. But before you use such a game, you need to make sure that the girl is not offended by this, because some people take rude references too close to their hearts. Therefore, foul words and obscene sentences should be handled carefully and on occasion.
IMPORTANT: Compliments and admiration – that’s what helps both partners feel more confident during sex!
As in the advice to girls, men should also try to voice their desires during sexual intercourse. For example: “I so want to enter you from behind!”, “Lick my cock with your sweet lips!”. These kinds of suggestions can not only diversify the intercourse, but also add spice to the relationship. Do not limit your imagination!
If there will be a desire to experiment with dirty language, it is best to ask your partner directly about how she will react to vulgarity. If she agrees, you can try throwing phrases like, “I want to spank you, you bad girl!” or “Suck my dick as deep as you’ve never sucked it before!”
Thus, we can conclude that every couple talks during sex and can develop certain code arousing phrases and words for themselves.
You can, of course, use the way other couples talk both during and before sex, but still everyone’s arousal will be individual. If the partner talks during sex, this feature can be channeled in a positive and pleasure-stimulating way.
