One of the ways that man has invented for sexual pleasure and orgasm is fisting. It is a very controversial practice.
There are a lot of subtexts in it, it’s hard to say unequivocally: is fisting good or bad? Some people may frankly want to try it, for others it will cause aggression, protest. There is a lot of harm in the practice, but there are also benefits. How to make the right decision?
What it is.
The name of the sexual practice comes from the English word “fist”, meaning “fist”. When people talk about fisting, they mean putting fingers (fingering), a fist of one or two hands, toes or feet, or a sex toy into a woman’s vagina, a woman’s or a man’s rectum.
Types:
- Vaginal;
- anal;
- double.
Speaking of anal, it has to do with sexual pleasure. Vaginal can easily be mistaken for a spiritual or medical practice that has nothing to do with human sensuality, an orgiastic experience. Double is for professionals.
It involves the insertion of both hands, fingers of both hands or two palms into the vagina, the anus.
It is easy to do. It consists of rotations, palpation, movements imitating friction, gapping (stretching for the purpose of examination). Imagination and intuition will come in handy and will tell you what to do.
You can do it to yourself. Then it is masturbation. You can do it together with your partner – it would be a kind of sexual intercourse.
From a doctor’s and a lawyer’s point of view
What better way than fisting to help a woman prepare for childbirth? Some will say sports, including sex-building and weightlifting. And someone will say that all this is good in combination with fisting and does not contradict it.
The elasticity of the vagina, the condition of the muscles, the pelvic organs mean a lot during childbirth. The baby’s skull remains flexible, but the sooner the baby comes out, the less stressful it is for everyone. Frequent problems during labor are vaginal and uterine ruptures. Sometimes doctors have to cut the entrance to the vagina.
This, of course, is not a practice for pregnant women – the natural microflora in the vagina, cervix, no cramps, including from orgasm – a prerequisite for normal childbirth, health and safety of the fetus.
There are no official statistics on the benefits of the practice for women’s health, and they will not appear soon. Injuries from those that can be obtained during the practice are not compatible with life.
In cases where a person has physically injured himself or herself, motives will be investigated and it will be determined whether it was suicide or not. Suicidal tendency is a severe moral and psychological condition, a personality trait that needs to be corrected.
Suicide is an antisocial act. If the injury was sustained during joint fisting with a partner, it resulted in death, the actions will be interpreted from the position of the Criminal Code, as negligent homicide. You have to do it right in order to avoid consequences.
No one should ever be induced to fisting. Experimentation on people is forbidden. Only the person himself can decide to do it. Persuasion, claims, deception, tricks, blackmail are completely inappropriate. There is no testimony to it. It is unnatural.
Another contradictory aspect of this practice, without which, it is impossible – examples of such sexual behavior are not to be found in nature.
It is 100% a human invention, characterizing the “creativity” of the species, which sometimes, alas, attracts, encourages the actions of people suffering from bestiality.
It cannot be practiced with a beloved female dog, even to facilitate the birthing process, which is spelled out in the criminal code of almost any state.
Mockery of vertebrate animals is criminally liable. What is fisting – everyone decides for himself and yet, at the heart of the practice is humanity, altruism, love of self without self-love.
The G-spot or the Grafenberg zone
One of the reasons for this exercise is the desire to improve the quality of one’s intimate life.
Back in the 50’s of the twentieth century, scientists began to talk about the G-spot. It was found by the German gynecologist Ernest Grafenberg.
He discovered that the female vagina, although it did not have sensitive receptors, still contained a sensitive area.
He suggested that the point at the front of the vagina (the wall adjacent to the abdomen) was something like a man’s prostate. It is located between 2.5 and 7.5 cm. Grafenberg associated sensitivity in the G-spot with the proximity of the pubic bone, the urethra.
An erogenous zone is considered an area of the body where nerve endings are concentrated.
Later, after careful testing of Grafenberg’s hypothesis, scientists established that there is no cluster of nerve endings in the vagina. However, erogenous zones can be found not only where there is sensitivity.
The reason for the emergence of nonstandard zones is the fixation of libido pleasure. The erogenous zone is related to emotions, sensual, bodily memory and slightly to physiology, anatomy. This is the place we can talk about, because many women claim that the G-spot exists.
From the point of view of physiology and female anatomy, it is more logical to assume that the G-spot is located at the back wall of the vagina (on the back, spine side).
Their stimulation, massage can be a physical pleasure, the source of which is the peculiarities of intestinal peristalsis, digestion, mental reaction to changes in hormonal background.
This proves that the G-spot (as it is also called – Grafenberg zone) can exist.
Consequences
For anyone who wants to relieve stress, get rid of accumulated emotional tension, unleash their natural potential, and test their body’s capabilities, this is an attractive practice.
But it is an unfamiliar and unusual sensation. That’s why after fisting there can be nervous tension, change of emotional background. Everything can end in a nervous breakdown.
What to do to avoid it?
An optimistic attitude, a knowledge of what we want, what the result is like, will match what is happening and what we want, and will stop the process in time. Other consequences are possible, not only changes in the emotional background after encountering the unknown.
These include:
- Risk of vaginal or colon rupture;
- Infectious diseases;
- microflora disruption;
- Encopresis (fecal incontinence);
- Organ deformities.
The main risk is a rupture of the vagina or colon. It is necessary to follow all the rules that have been developed by professionals. They are effective, reduce the risks.
To study the history of the issue, to learn as much information as possible will not be superfluous. Sex toys, related products will also help. But you can’t do without attention, patience. Features must be noticed, take into account. The price of negligence – life, it is contrary to the meaning of practice.
Infectious diseases are also a threat. All sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted during fisting. And that includes HIV, syphilis, genital herpes, and more. At the first symptoms you should see a doctor.
Follow the rules of hygiene. Intestinal microflora is not called opportunistic for nothing. An imbalance of bacteria can lead to the development of a number of diseases.
Fecal incontinence is not the last possibility of developing encopresis.
The frequency of exercise and the level of psychological comfort and discomfort are of great importance. The muscles of the rectum can be controlled consciously. And if there is a problem after exercise, it is most likely a psychological condition.
There is a possibility that mechanical damage to certain areas of the colon is to blame. Only a doctor and a comprehensive diagnosis can determine the cause of the development of the pathology.
Deformity of the genitals, loss of muscle tone, steady unnatural stretching, shapelessness are some of the possible consequences of the abuse of this type of sexual intercourse. Fisting tends to break the laws of nature and it is dangerous.
Plastic surgeries on the genitals are not uncommon. They restore normal proportions, physiotherapy returns the usual muscle activity. The causes of such a deformity are inattention, loss of control.
Basic rules
Compliance with these rules will reduce the risks.
- There should be no painful sensations.
This is a source of positive feelings, confidence.
The sensation may be close to orgasm, may be orgasmic, may be different, but it is definitely not pain. It is necessary to be attentive to your own sensations, to try to identify them clearly.
- It takes about a month to prepare for the practice.
There is no hurry when you decide to do an experiment. You have to study theory before you do it: history, rules, techniques, anatomy – everything you can find. You have to buy lubricants, sex toys. Lubricants will relax when anal, help you get results quickly.
It is better to choose products without heat effect, so as not to reduce the degree of pleasure. Sex toys allow you to explore your body, to diversify pleasure, to get a good effect. Sometimes they are not needed at all.
Of great importance is the foreplay. Sexual arousal is more than desirable. A trusting relationship between partners is necessary.
Nails should be trimmed, it is desirable to use medical latex gloves – to prevent injury.
An enema helps to eliminate stool residues, but there is no particular need for this – the stool flows into the rectum from the upper intestine. Sometimes it is more rational to prefer a diet: add foods rich in fiber to your diet.
- Fiber improves intestinal motility.
Everything should happen after realizing and accepting all the risks, the responsibility.
Fisting is not just a sexual act. It is a practice that has philosophical overtones. It does not contradict the aesthetics of the genitals, natural processes, emphasizes them.
